Adventure, baby!

Christine Knight

Christine is the editor of Adventure, Baby! She loves cake, her tolerant husband and her busy preschooler.

Happy Birthday Alec!

For Alec’s 38th birthday we had a laid-back family day around Brooklyn.

We started with grilled cheese sandwiches and shakes at Brooklyn Farmacy, followed by a walk through Prospect Park and Brooklyn Botanic Gardens. Since we can’t really go out at night, we ordered in sushi and finished up with celebratory fruit flan.

Happy birthday Alec! I love you 🙂

Shakes!

Grilled cheeses destroyed!

Shake leftovers to go!

Prospect Park.

Brooklyn Botanic Gardens.

Family! Brooklyn Botanic Gardens.

Birthday fruit flan!

Babes get Arty

My friend Alexis and I decided to start taking the babies to galleries to see how they enjoyed it – plus we wanted to start seeing exhibitions again. We started yesterday with the Whitney Biennial.

The babies were fantastic. Really entertained by everything around them. The fellow gallery goers were great, one even asking to take photos of the babies in front of the art.

We met up with friends Annie and Coco later for a drink before braving the peak hour trains home.

A great success for us all! Can’t wait to take the little ones to many more galleries.

Coco and Eloise get rowdy.
With Eloise at the Whitney.

Alexis, Julien, me and Eloise getting cultural.
Braving the subway at peak hour.

Remembering to be thankful

A lot of the time I focus on how hard everything feels. Moving country. Pregnancy. A crazy newborn! It’s  too easy to fall into the trap of feeling like everything is just way. too. hard, and that I just. can’t. cope.

Then I have a day where my eyes become clear and I realise how lucky I am. Many years ago, I dreamed of living in New York. I wanted true love in my life. I wanted a beautiful daughter. All of my dreams have come a reality.

Here’s to focusing on the big picture. All the little annoying things will pass, and my life is truly totally amazing.

Spring in Central Park

Spring in New York is my favourite season. The cherry blossoms bloom in the parks and sidewalks, and the gardens are full of daffodils, tulips and crocuses.

We took a trip uptown to see an exhibition at the Jewish Museum. It was Eloise’s first gallery experience, as well as her first cherry blossom in nearby Central Park.

Riding the subway like a big girl.
Gorgeous.
Asleep with Dad.
Hey hey, looks who’s back!

Eloise – Month 6 – 7

Developmental

  • A lot more chatty this month, making new sounds like “dada” and “baba”.
  • Finer motor control. Able to touch things more gently rather than bashing things, like our faces!
  • Banging objects together.
  • Loves picking up objects and examining them, particularly pulling them out of her toy box.
  • Reaching to be picked up.
  • Showing a preference for Alec or myself, but generally really social and loves meeting new people.
  • Staying awake for longer periods during the day – up to 3 hours, sometimes longer.
  • Putting more weight on her legs.
  • Eloise is just so happy all the time! She’s just such a delight to be around all day now. She enjoys being outside and looking at people, and is pretty much a smiling, laughing little lady all day. 

Milestones/firsts

  • Eloise’s two bottom teeth came in this month. We had a super rough few weeks where she screamed and wouldn’t sleep, refused solids and didn’t want to nurse. One night she finally slept, and in the morning, there they were!
  • First swing this month! The weather warmed up and we started spending time in the parks.

Food
Eloise moved onto a feeding schedule – nursing 4 times a day (6am, 10am, 2pm, 6pm) with 3 meals of solids in between. She loves yoghurt and fruit the most, but will also eat things like lentils and brown rice with vegetables, and with a bit of curry powder mixed in.

Sleep

  • Comes and goes. Bad nights of screaming, followed by nights where she will wake, feed and go back to sleep. A few nights with only one wake up.
  • We finally were able to move Eloise into her crib. We put in a wedge to prop up the end, and put in a vibrating unit under the mattress to simulate the bouncer. A few weeks of this and we took out the wedge and vibrating unit and she finally sleeps in a flat, normal crib. 
  • Major breakthrough with sleep during the day – Eloise now puts herself to sleep. When she shows tired signs, we put her in the crib and she goes to sleep by herself. So great.
  • Likes to sleep on her side!

Meme

My lovely friend Cat over at Letters to Georgia asked me to answer the following questions. I’m not a big tagger of other people to do the same, but I’m happy to play along.

1. What is your strongest belief – something you are so passionate about you can argue your point with anyone? 
Kindness to animals. I’m a vegetarian and have been an animal lover all my life. Nothing makes me more sad or angry than seeing cruelty to animals.

2. What qualities do you hold that makes you a good friend? 
Loyalty, generosity, kindness.

3. If you could live in a television show, which show & which character would you play?
Gossip Girl. I’d love to be Serena and have her wardrobe and amazing hair.

4. If you could change one thing about yourself what would it be?
I’d like to have more empathy towards people. While I am fiercely devoted to my friends, I’m not the most humanitarian person towards strangers.

5. What is your current personal life goal?
It’s cliched, but travel, experience and photograph the world with Alec and Eloise.

5. Where would you like to go on your next holiday?
The Caribbean. We’re going next winter, maybe Barbados or St Maartin’s.

6. The old faithful – dead or alive – four people that you will invite to your fantasy dinner party?
Joss Whedon, Jane Austin, Emily Blunt, Heath Ledger.

7. A song that always reminds you of something, and what or who and why? 
“Bubby”, Colbie Caillat. My cousin-in-law sang this song at our wedding and whenever I hear it it makes me cry and remember marrying my love.

8. Tell me your typical Sunday 
This has changed so much post-Eloise. After the baby wakes, I feed her, hand her over to Alec and get a few more hours sleep. We then head out to brunch in our neighbourhood in Brooklyn. If it’s nice weather we’ll take a walk down to the waterfront parks under Brooklyn Bridge or take the subway to Central Park. On the way home, we stop by my favourite bakery, One Girl Cookie for a whoopie pie for Alec, and a spiky cupcake for me. We then play at home with Eloise, put her to bed, I make dinner and Alec and I collapse in bed not long after. Babies are tiring!

9. What was the last movie you watched? 
I hardly ever get time to watch movies anymore. I watched Gosford Park on Netflix recently over a few nights while Alec was working late.

10. What is your idea of a dream date?
My standards have lowered somewhat now that Alec and I have virtually no time alone anymore. Just a few hours to ourselves to have a quiet dinner with good wine is perfect.

11. Post the 11th photo on your phone.

This is a pic from the hospital not long after Eloise was born. I look so exhausted – I’d just had a C-section after 24 hours of labour.

Brooklyn Fave Places

We’ve been living in Brooklyn almost a year now and really love our neighbourhood.

Coffee – Alec loves Cafe Pedlar. Our weekend walks always start with a skim latte from here.

Cupcakes and baked treats – One Girl Cookie. Their spiky cupcakes are addictive, as are their chocolate whoopie pies and tiny cookie treats.

Pizza – Layla Jones. A rectangle pizza that we get heaped in plum tomatoes. Delish.

Hot chocolate – Bein cuit. It’s a bit sweet but not too milky and heavy.

Chocolate everything – the Chocolate Room. Delish desserts.

Croissants –

Brunch – Five Leaves. This is in Williamsburg, but that’s ok. Amazing pancakes. Wonderful eggs. Was also started by Heath Ledger.

Omelets: Le Petite Cafe. Tasty omeletes and an indoor garden that looks like spring in the middle of winter.

Takeaway – HopHap for Thai. Great fried rice and noodle dishes. Also great roti strangely enough.

Bagels

Eloise – Month 5 – 6

Week 23 – Jan 21 – 27

Eloise’s first winter snow! We had a great snow fall and went for a walk in our winter wonderland.

First winter snow. 22 wks old.

After several more days of having a lot of trouble with Eloise and sleeping, I decided to try and increase her awake time, since it was taking over 30 minutes, up to an hour, to rock her, screaming, to sleep. Amazingly this seemed to work! Keeping her up around 2 hours at a time then putting her down not only resulted in her going down easier, but also her staying asleep for longer. And, wonder of all wonders, she also started to sleep better … An almost 5 hour stretch followed by two more good nights. No more waking up with gas. We also tried her in the Merlin’s Magic Sleep Suit that my mother’s group rave about.   Again, amazingly, she had a great night, only waking up twice to feed on the last night of this week – almost 6 hours after being fed for the first feed, then a four hour stretch, then awake at 6 with a poop. Damn the 6am poos.

We tried her second solid this week – mango puree. She liked it a lot better than the cereal.

Eloise keeps getting easier and easier, and so much more fun. She can entertain herself now for periods of play on her back or in the exersaucer. She is starting to like more interactive toys so we are starting to look at the 6mth and up toys to get her soon.

She also loves her feet and spends a lot of time holding them and shoving them into her mouth. Now she has discovered her fingers, she loves to stick either her thumb or first finger in her mouth and suck on them.

Eloise’s personality is really starting to show now. She is happy and smiling the majority of the time, only crying when there is something wrong – like if she’s hungry or has a shock or something hurts. If she’s bored or doesn’t like something, she squeals and tries to talk to us.

She really loves best when we play with her. I do a few exercises most days using Eloise as a weight and she just loves them. She smiles and laughs her head off.

Week 24 – Jan 28 – Feb 3

Had a nice weekend out, to the Brooklyn Flea market and Le Petit Cafe on Saturday and skating in Central Park on Sunday.

Family day out in Central Park. 23 wks old.

Solids: avocado, carrot, butternut squash. Eloise didn’t like the avocado, loved the carrot, and tolerated the butternut squash.

Her sleep is FINALLY improving, with some almost 5 hour stretches and less waking up with gas. She even napped in her crib.

Eloise is outgrowing her toys. She is now interested in investigating things. She loves the exersaucer, blocks, toys that spin, rattles.

After doing really well for about 5 nights in a row, Eloise seemed to regress a bit. I think she had a bit of a stomach bug, as she was obviously feeling off, and started waking up multiple times a night again …

Week 25 – Feb 4 – 10

Solids: Peas! Loved them. Increased her solids intake to twice a day. and stretched out the breast feeding to every 4 hours.

Solids. Butternut squash. 24 wks old.

We had a great lunch at the Plaza food court. Eloise’s second visit to the Plaza since she was born.

Eloise is sitting really well on her own now. She is also putting more weight on her legs when held up.

Eloise gets bored of things fast, so we are rotating through her toys and activities frequently to keep her entertained. The exersaucer definitely entertains her the longest.

Week 26 – Feb 11 – 17

We started crib training this week. We rigged a vibrating unit to he crib that vibrates for 20 mins then switches off. The first day, we had good success for her naps, but then at night time she woke, screamed inconsolably for 2 hours, and we put her back in the bouncer. Day two was much more positive. She slept the night really well, only waking from 12:30 – 1:15 am with gas and to feed, then sleeping till 6:30. Amazing.

We are trying a bit of controlled crying as she screams when being put in her crib (she also screamed when being put in the bouncer, so this is nothing new). First attempt – 10 mins of crying and she fell asleep. Victory! After a few days, it’s working well. We gave Eloise a little lovie toy and she uses it to comfort herself and send herself to sleep. It seems like she wants to put herself to sleep now, as she pushes our hands away if we try to rock her like we used to.

Solids this week: Peaches! Really enjoyed them.

Eloise is so close to rolling over from back to front. Any day now. She is also pushing things away that she doesn’t like and interacting with other babies more and more. She’s also sitting really well and taking more weight on her legs. She loves kicking her legs, and tries to sit up in the BabyBjorn bouncer.

First Valentine’s Day. 25 wks.

First Valentine’s Day this week. Alec worked from home and we went out for lunch to Le Petite Cafe. 

Week 27 – Feb 18 – 19


Solids: Fresh banana – not really a fan. Yoghurt: LOVED it.

Loving yoghurt. 26 wks.

First trip to Alice’s Tea Cup for high tea on the UWS. Can’t wait to take her back when she’s a little older.

The past few days Eloise has started making a new whiney noise when she’s bored or tired. She also makes high pitched squeals around the same times.

Feeding wise – I now only feed Eloise four times a day (roughly 6am, 10am, 2pm, 6pm), and twice at night (10pm dream feed and during her night waking which can be anywhere from 12:30, 2:30 or 4:40am) . I’m trying to cut out the night feeds but so far it’s been proving challenging.  We feed her solids in between the mid morning and mid afternoon breastfeeding.

Ice Skating in Central Park

On a beautiful winter’s day, the perfect activity is ice skating surrounded by the beauty of Central Park. It’s always been something I wanted to do, and it was really surreal to be skating around in the park.

Snow Day!

My first true winter snow in New York. It was really beautiful and not too cold at all. Uh-mazing!

View from our apartment